"Having anorexia and bulimia is like a living death, and many victims have suffered abuse, molestation, or mistreatment long before the illness took hold, so they've had pretty much hellish lives, even if everything looked OK from the outside. I didn't want attention, I wanted to die because I didn't think I deserved to live, because I blamed myself for the mistreatment I suffered. No one who hasn't been there has any right to tell me what I experienced was something other than what it was. YOU CAN'T JUDGE WHAT YOU HAVEN'T EXPERIENCED!"